Surrender is letting go of everything that’s in the way.
Sometimes this is our work to do - our turn on, pleasure and desire is our own responsibility, don’t wait for someone to give you something you can give yourself.
Sometimes it’s our partners job - they can help us by sweeping away the barriers and obstacles that keep us stuck.
And mostly it’s a delicate combination of both…letting go and letting our partner lead us.
Lovers School teaches you both…minus the mind reading…because that never works, especially in intimacy 🙃