Relationship & Marriage Counselling for
Long-Term Couples
Reignite Connection & Passion
Julie Tenner is a trauma-responsive therapist offering specialised counselling for individuals and couples on relationship, marriage, communication, sexuality and connection.
Are you ready to experience a more fulfilling and deeply connected relationship?
Do you long for more intimacy, better communication, and the space to be truly seen and heard?
Are you and your partner feeling disconnected, stuck in routines that leave little room for intimacy and true connection?
In long-term relationships, it’s common to fall into patterns of over-functioning and miscommunication, where desire can fade and daily life takes over.
But your relationship doesn’t have to stay this way.
In my relationship and marriage counselling sessions, we get real about what’s holding you back, using tantra-inspired practices and body-based techniques to release the stuck energy and old wounds that can block your connection.
Together, we’ll build self and couple awareness, explore insights into communication and listening, and practice repair strategies that deepen your bond.
It’s about finding your rhythm together, bringing the spark back, and moving beyond patterns that no longer serve you—so you can feel more connected, passionate, and fully in love.
Julie, once again, expertly provided a balance of levity and sincerity to allow a flow of openness and safety between my wife and I. she made us feel comfortable, exploring difficult topics to reconnect and find that spark again.
-Trent.
What You’ll Gain from Working with Me:
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Rekindled Passion & Desire
Move beyond daily routines and mental overload to reignite the spark between you, transitioning from “co-managers” back to passionate partners who truly enjoy each other.
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A Deeper, Embodied Connection
Through tantra-inspired practices and somatic techniques, release old patterns, tension, and trauma stored in the body, creating space for a renewed sense of intimacy, openness, and attraction.
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Revitalised Feminine and Masculine Balance
Shift from constant “doing” and “managing” into a harmonious flow where both partners feel safe to relax, receive, and express desire naturally and confidently.
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Effective, Heart-Centered Communication
Gain tools to express your needs, listen with empathy, and support one another in ways that reduce resentment and foster mutual respect, safety, and understanding.
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Confidence in Meeting Each Other’s Needs
Discover new ways of approaching intimacy, physical touch, and connection, where you feel seen, valued, and wanted by your partner.
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Emotional and Sensual Fulfillment
Experience the joy of a relationship that’s deeply fulfilling on every level, where both partners feel cherished, valued, and excited to be together.
There’s been many different learnings I’ve had with you Julie, in terms of my own body, how we interact together as a couple, there’s been many takeaways which have been really helpful.
- Sam
Thank you Julie for holding such a safe nurturing and honest space to explore myself and my partner's needs and wants relating to our intimacy and connection. Your facilitation is caring, kind and so full of knowledge and information and provides real help to couples to take their relationship from ordinary to wonderful! Thank you for all you do to help couples find more connection and depth in themselves and each other!
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~ Raquel
"We are so grateful that we found your work, it has bought together so many threads of all the other work we have done and provided so many ah ha moments."
~ Todd and Jen
Who is this for?
This is for couples who love each other deeply but feel like something’s missing. Maybe your relationship has turned into a never-ending to-do list, with connection and intimacy falling to the wayside. You’re best friends, great co-parents, or reliable teammates—but not lovers like you used to be.
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If you’re stuck in the “roommate rut,” avoiding touch, or feeling like tension, resentment, or just plain exhaustion is getting in the way, this is for you. It’s for couples who crave more than a surface-level relationship, who want a real, magnetic connection, where you feel desired, valued, and seen.
It’s for you if:
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You want to put the family-management mode on pause and rediscover each other as partners and lovers.
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You’re both ready to move through discomfort and explore new ways of communicating, so your needs are heard, valued, and met.
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You want to break the cycle of avoidance and bring intimacy, playfulness, and desire back into your relationship.
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You’re committed to creating time for each other, letting go of limiting beliefs, and building a relationship that feels full of life, attraction, and possibility.
This counseling isn’t a 'quick fix.' It’s for couples ready to dive in, put in the work, and create real connection. If you’re both willing to break through old habits and limiting beliefs, we’ll build a partnership that’s vibrant, intimate, and full of possibilities."
How it works
1:1 sessions with Julie are designed to fit your needs and lifestyle:
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Personalised sessions tailored to you and your unique relationship dynamics.
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Flexible scheduling to ensure you can make this work with your busy life.
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Guided resources and tools to take home and apply between sessions.
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Ongoing support to keep you accountable and motivated throughout your journey.
3-Session Relationship Recharge Pack
Ready to break out of old patterns and bring fresh energy into your relationship? Start with a 3-Session Relationship Recharge Pack—a powerful first step toward connection, clarity, and change.
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Session 1: Discover What’s Really Going On
In our first session, we dive deep to uncover what’s truly happening in your relationship. This is a safe, open space to explore the blocks, triggers, and unspoken dynamics that are keeping you from the connection and intimacy you both want. We’ll get to the heart of things, laying a solid foundation for real transformation.
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Sessions 2 & 3: Action, Accountability, and Problem Solving
Our next sessions are where the magic happens. We’ll focus on practical, meaningful actions, creating accountability, and giving you the tools to solve issues and navigate change together. These sessions are designed to keep you moving forward, with tailored strategies that fit your relationship and goals.
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Commitment to Your Growth
To book, start with this 3-session pack—this is the foundation for our work together. From there, we’ll assess your needs and build a plan that best supports your relationship’s journey.
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AUD $570
Payment plan: $200/week
Ready to take that first step?
Let’s get started.
"Julie created ease and provided frameworks that have created a common language for us to continue to be curious and expand our intimacy and connection. The mood was safe, playful, joyful and reflective. A wonderful experience and an opportunity for my partner and I to reconnect."
~ Sarah